When one kindness returns


I was giving away some clothes for a little girl, about two or three years old. A woman wrote to me: she was in a difficult situation, her daughter had nothing to wear, and asked if I could send her something by mail.

At first, I wanted to brush it off,  let her sort it out herself, I thought. But then another thought struck me: what if things really are that bad for her? In the end, I mailed the clothes at my own expense.

A year later, a parcel arrived for me. Inside were…

The package was so light it rattled when I moved it. I slit the tape open and lifted the lid. No sweaters, no trinkets. Instead, there was a small stack of crayon drawings, a few sprigs of pressed wildflowers, and a folded sheet of paper filled with careful handwriting.

I sat down at the table and began to read:

“Dear friend,
I don’t know if you remember me. A year ago, you sent us clothes for my daughter. At the time, we had so little. The house was drafty, my husband was away, and my child wore shoes full of holes. When your parcel came, she squealed and twirled in her new dress. She laughed again, after weeks of silence. Life is brighter now. I have steady work, my husband is home, and our little girl has grown. These drawings are hers. She wanted me to send them to ‘the lady who gave me the pretty clothes.’ The flowers, we picked together for you.”

The words blurred as I read them again and again. Gratitude and a strange warmth swelled inside me.

My first instinct had been annoyance. Mailing meant standing in line at the post office, paying postage out of my own pocket. Why should I bother? Yet a memory surfaced — me, years earlier, heavily pregnant, asking friends for hand-me-downs because we couldn’t afford more. I remembered the shame and the fear. So I filled a box: dresses, tights, a jacket. At the counter I paid twenty dollars to send it. Not a fortune, but noticeable at the time. And then, life carried on.

Until this moment.

I spread the drawings on the table. One showed a stick-figure family beneath an oversized sun, the little girl in a green dress. Another had a tree pressed so hard in pencil the paper was nearly torn. A third was just a blue sky scribbled with determination. They weren’t just children’s art; they were fragments of another life, entrusted to me.

That evening I typed a message to the email she had written on the letter. “I received your parcel. Thank you. It touched me deeply.”

Her reply came within minutes: “I was so afraid it would be lost. My daughter jumped with joy when I told her you got it. She said, ‘The kind lady has it now!’”

That was how our correspondence began. Her name was Maren. She lived in a rural town near Lake Champlain, worked in a small pharmacy, and her husband drove long-haul trucks. Their daughter, Lila, had just started preschool. Maren wrote plainly, never asking for more, but her fatigue showed between the lines: “Another week alone on shifts,” or “Quarantine in preschool, but I still have to work.” Slowly, a thread stretched between us, delicate but strong.

Meanwhile, my own life carried its dull routines — office reports, grocery lists, school pickups. Outwardly, everything was fine, yet a sense of emptiness lingered. Strangely enough, it was Maren who helped fill it. We shared stories no one else would care to hear. I wrote about my son turning pots into drums for a kitchen concert. She answered with Lila’s attempt to sing at a school play, forgetting half the words but still winning applause.

Months later, I planned a trip to coastal Maine, not far from her town. Tentatively, I asked if she would like to meet. At first she hesitated — “I’m not sure, I’m shy” — but eventually she agreed.

I was nervous walking into the café we had chosen, my heart racing as though meeting a dear friend for the first time. The door opened, and there she was: a slim woman with her hair tied back, holding a tote bag from which a stuffed rabbit peeked out. Beside her stood little Lila in a rose-colored dress, wide-eyed but smiling.

“Are you…?” she asked.
“Yes,” I nodded.

We hugged like old acquaintances. Lila immediately thrust the rabbit into my hands. “For you.”

Over tea we spoke of work, children, daily life. The girls quickly made a game of running between tables, laughing. And I thought: how strange and wonderful. A year earlier, I had nearly ignored a plea for help. Now I sat across from someone who had become genuinely important to me.

From then on, we exchanged small gifts — jars of jam from her kitchen, books for Lila from me. The friendship, unexpected as it was, eased the weight of my days. I grew more patient, less irritable. I noticed little joys I might once have overlooked.

All of it began with one simple choice: to send a box of clothes instead of turning away.

Two years later, I still keep the wildflowers and the drawings in a box. Sometimes my son asks why.

“Because,” I tell him, “they remind me that the smallest kindness can change more than one life.”

And every time I open that box, I feel it again: the quiet miracle of invisible threads binding us to one another.