I grew up on a sweet potato farm about ten miles from the nearest town, where mornings kick off before the sun’s up and “vacation” usually means the county fair.
My parents always have soil on their hands and more determination than anyone else I know. I used to believe that was all it took to earn people’s respect.
Then I landed a spot in a prestigious scholarship program at a private school in the city. It was supposed to be my big chance. But on the very first day, I walked into homeroom wearing jeans that still carried a faint scent of the barn. A girl with a sleek ponytail turned to her friend and whispered, “Ew. Do you, like, live on a farm or something?”
I didn’t say a word. Just took a seat and kept my head down. I told myself I was imagining it. But the comments didn’t stop. “What kind of shoes are those?” “Wait—you don’t have WiFi at home?” One guy even asked if I drove a tractor to school.
I stayed quiet, kept my grades up, and avoided talking about where I was from. But deep down, I was frustrated that I felt embarrassed. Because back home, I’m not just “that farm girl.” I’m Mele. I know how to fix a flat, handle chickens, and sell produce like a pro. My parents built something real and meaningful. So why was I trying to hide it?
Things shifted at a school fundraiser. Everyone was asked to bring something from home to sell. Most kids showed up with store-bought cookies or little crafts they’d been helped with. I brought sweet potato pies—our family’s signature recipe. I made six. They sold out in twenty minutes.
That’s when Ms. Bell, our guidance counselor, pulled me aside to say something I’ll never forget. But before she could get the words out, someone walked up—someone I never expected would even talk to me.
It was Izan. The guy everyone liked. Not in a loud or showy way, but because he had this quiet confidence. His dad sat on the board, his shoes were always spotless, and somehow, he remembered people’s names. Including mine.
“Hey, Mele,” he said, eyeing the empty pie tins. “Did you really bake those yourself?”
I nodded, unsure where this was going.
He smiled. “Think I could get one for my mom? She’s crazy about anything sweet potato.”
I think I blinked twice before replying, “Uh, yeah. I can bring one Monday.”
Ms. Bell gave me a little look, like she was saying, Told you so, then added, “That pie? That’s part of your story. You should be proud to share it.”
That night, I stayed up thinking—not about Izan, but about all the times I’d buried my background, thinking it made me smaller. What if it was actually the thing that made me strong?
So on Monday, I didn’t just bring a pie. I brought flyers. I made up a name—Mele’s Roots—and handed out slips that read, “Farm-to-table pies, fresh every Friday. Ask about seasonal flavors.” I figured maybe a couple kids would be curious.
By the end of lunch, I had twelve pre-orders and a message from someone named Zuri asking if I could cater their grandma’s birthday party.
It kind of blew up from there. Teachers started asking if I could bring mini pies to staff meetings. One girl even offered to trade me a designer jacket for three pies. (I said no. Politely. The jacket was hideous.)
But what really surprised me was when Izan sent me a photo of his mom mid-bite, eyes wide open. The caption read, She says this is better than her sister’s—and that’s saying something.
I laughed out loud. My dad glanced up and asked, “That a good thing or a bad thing?”
“Very good,” I told him. “I think we’re going to need a bigger oven.”
Every Thursday night after that, we baked together—pies, biscuits, sometimes bread. I learned more about our family’s recipes than I ever had. And I began using those stories in school presentations and essays—talking about the farm, my grandparents, and how we pushed through the drought years.
And gradually, people began to listen.
The girl with the glossy ponytail? She asked me for the pie recipe. I gave her a basic version—no chance she’s using a wood-fired oven—but it felt good.
For senior year, our final project had to reflect something important to who we are. I made a documentary-style video about life on our farm. I filmed my mom rinsing carrots in a bucket, my dad tossing bread crusts to the dogs. I ended it with me at the county fair, next to my little pie booth under a hand-painted sign.
When the video played in front of the entire school, I was nervous. I stared at the floor the whole time. But when it ended, the applause was loud. A few people even stood.
Afterward, Izan came up and gave me a one-arm hug. “Told you your story mattered.”
I smiled and said, “Took me a while to see it.”
The truth is, I used to think people wouldn’t respect me if they knew where I came from. But I’ve learned that you teach people how to see you. When you embrace your story, it becomes your strength—not something to hide.
So yeah—I’m a farmer’s daughter. And that doesn’t make me less.
It makes me grounded.
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